. I look for goodness; it is out there; people trying to do the right things on a regular basis. One could almost predict who will show up when there is something to do. They come; do what is needed; leave fulfilled and often tired. There are many who do this and also many who would like to but cannot for various reasons. They do their good in other ways. The joy of giving of yourself cannot be overstated. Happy people are givers. Those unhappy keep looking out for themselves always wanting more but more was the wrong choice and now they wish they had chosen something different, a yellow car instead of the red on they settled on. They become depressed and affect other people. What should be systemic joy is melded into a bland populace. Blandness leads to indifference. Where some care about condition and others don’t. Respect for others becomes a lost notion which leads to a divide eventually goes to the courts. This comes with costs paid for with citizen’s money and in the end one side is a victor and the other is bitter and in a sense everyone loses. The coming together is not that difficult if pride and ego could be set aside. We have a way to go and many steps to take, but eventually sensibility will take us to where we want to be. Our integrity will have been restored. Stanski November 11, 2020 ^